It all started with a small incident, one evening at my workplace, the year was 2019. I was enjoying a retirement party and one newly joined employee asked me, “Madam, how many years do you have for your retirement”, and while I was counting the years, it dawned on me how time passed by and I remained where I was. It was a wake up call for me. It kept me thinking for many days, my whole life unfolded in front of me like a movie. Of course I had moments of pride and moments of guilt, but this was not how I wanted the movie to be. I lived on default auto mode; never gave my opinion, always tried to please people, adjusted my schedule to others, procrastinated my own growth, lived below average, no self esteem, no confidence, no vision, no goal, a mundane life.